An Aries north node means you’re fearless and unafraid to make things happen. However, sometimes you can be a little too impulsive. Famous people with their north nodes in Aries include Jennifer Aniston, Carl Jung, and Drake. [2] X Research source
While your Libra south node may be encouraging you to find comfort in a group, remember your soul’s purpose comes from finding individualism. Aries is naturally charming. Use that natural charm to show others how much fun being unique can be.
Aries’ biggest hardship comes from communication. Utilize your Libra south node’s excellent communication skills (like maintaining a level head, active listening, and using “I feel” statements) to help explain your goals. Libra tends to compromise a little too often. Use that Aries courage and stand your ground if you feel strongly about something.
We often push people away because we don’t communicate our needs. Explain to others that you need time and energy for just you and you’ll see how easy it is to stop antagonizing.
The “wrong person” doesn’t always mean toxic. Sometimes, you may find people who are perfectly healthy, but a little too codependent or sensitive for your fiery personality. Ruled by Venus, Libra is extremely comfortable in relationships. Make sure to check in with yourself regularly and ask if you’re truly happy with your partner or if it’s just more convenient to stay with them. [5] X Research source Great ways to check-in with yourself include journaling, meditation, or even a weekly therapy appointment to voice your concerns.
If you feel shame with grander gestures of physical intimacy, start with smaller, gentler acts like hand-holding or cuddling. These will appease your Libra south node and make the process seem less intimidating.
To express your creativity and aggression healthily, try activities where you and your partner can work together to win: team sports, story modes in video games, etc. Before you debate, try to find one thing you support about your partner’s statement and voice it. This will make sparring and arguing seem more fun and less combative.
Aries does well in individualized, creative jobs where they can put themselves out there: acting, singing, public speaking, social media, etc.
Aries’ love for thrill and challenge can also be channeled well into first responder careers like firefighting and nursing.
North nodes and south nodes exist on the same axis, so wherever your north node is in the 12 houses, your south node will always be 6 houses away.
Accepting disapproval can be tough, but the sooner you learn to tolerate it, the easier it will be to live a life free of fear: fear of other’s opinions, fear of failure, fear in general.
Taking charge in a relationship is all about improving your self-esteem and knowing your worth. Set aside some time every day to reflect on things you’re proud of. It’s impossible to have a power balance in toxic relationships. Be on the lookout for signs of toxicity in your partner like: hypercriticism, gaslighting, and contempt.
To aid this process, try creating a pro-con list for an established philosophy. Write what you agree with on one side and what you disagree with on the other.
Start small with building healthy habits. Focus on working a set number of hours a day (this doesn’t have to be excessive) and getting an adequate amount of sleep. Then, expand from there.
